Reporting Your Abuse


Consequences

There are many personal and professional reasons for not wanting the department to know what's going on in your personal life. You know that reporting your abuse to the department will have serious repercussions, personally and professionally — for both of you.

Some departments have policies requiring that personnel must report knowledge of officer domestic abuse incidents. If you don't report the abuse, you risk that your abuser or someone else could report it. Depending on policy, you could be disciplined for not reporting your own victimization.

What Do You Want to Accomplish?

You have to face the same questions that cvilian victims face:

  • How and when do you decide to tell the department about your abuser?
  • What do you hope to accomplish?
  • What are the department's policies?
  • What are the department's values and standards?
  • What do you want the chief to know?
  • What could actually happen as a result of your report?
Once you go to the department, the matter may be out of your hands.

Internal Investigation

If your allegations are credible and serious enough, the chief may order an internal investigation. Unlike civilian victims, you must cooperate with the investigators.

During the investigation, you may face:

  • Scrutiny of your personal life
  • Ostracism
  • Discipline for not reporting
  • Fitness-for-duty evaluation
  • Mandated counseling
  • Reassignment
  • Career jeopardy
  • Retaliation

Ironically, forcing you to divulge certain information can actually help shield the abuser from prosecution. If the investigator elicits information from you about a serious incident, and then orders the abuser to answer questions regarding the incident, his compelled statement is protected under the Garrity rule (Garrity v. N.J., 385 U.S., 493, 1967.)

Make an Informed Decision

Any one of these outcomes may put you at risk. You may need to implement your safety plan. Remember that though others may assist you, ultimately you are the only one who can make decisions regarding your security.

Discussing your plans with a domestic violence counselor or an attorney may help you to determine if going to the chief is a good strategy. If you want to discuss your options before taking specific steps, contact Diane Wetendorf.

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