When Battered Women Are Arrested


Retaliation and Manipulation

A police officer who batters can use arrest as a powerful control tactic. Your abuser may be able to manipulate the responding officers into arresting you by claiming that you assaulted him. Responding officers may not listen to your account of the incident or believe you were acting in self-defense.

Your abuser fully understands the impact that arrest has on a person — physically, emotionally and financially.

He knows that after the arrest, people in the system will refer to you as the perpetrator.

Battered women who have been arrested face extremely difficult choices and are often given poor or incomplete information and advice when they are arrested.

An arrest puts you at increased risk and poses serious problems:

  • You may not be eligible for services at your local domestic violence agency or shelter because they can't provide services to a defendant in a criminal case.
  • You may not be able to afford legal counsel or find an attorney who will accept a case against an officer.
  • You may decide to plea guilty or accept a plea bargain to end the ordeal quickly.
Remember that you have a right to remain silent!

Plea Bargains

Some women just want to get the legal process over quickly so they can return home to their children who may be with the batterer or his family. Unfortunately, they may make statements to the police or participate in early hearings without the benefit of defense counsel. Or, their defense attorney fails to fully explore all possible defenses.

Refusing to accept a plea gives you an opportunity to be acquitted, but it does prolong the legal process. During the time between your arrest and the trial, your abuser may increase his physical or emotional abuse and/or coerce you into complying with various demands.

Criminal Record

No one may have adequately warned you about the potential long-term consequences of being convicted as a result of a trial or a plea bargain. If you are charged with a crime, you need to know the ramifications of pleading guilty or negotiating a plea.

  • A conviction for certain types of crimes may prevent you from getting licenses or employment in an increasing number of occupations.
  • Conviction, probation or parole could affect eligibility for public benefits such as public housing.
  • Private realtors or landlords frequently conduct criminal background checks and may refuse to rent to you.
  • The fact that you were convicted of a crime either as a result of a trial or plea will be used against you in any custody hearing.
  • A conviction of certain crimes may prompt deportation.
  • Convicted felons may lose the right to vote, to serve on a jury, or to hold public office.
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An Important Note

Despite the many potential downsides of accepting a plea bargains, the National Clearinghouse for the Defense of Battered Women does not believe that plea bargains are bad for all women. Taking a plea may absolutely be in your best interests.

Each situation requires an individualized assessment. You and your defense attorney must examine and weigh all the advantages and downsides of any option — be it taking a plea, accepting a deferral, or going to trial.

When to Contact NCDBW

The National Clearinghouse for the Defense of Battered Women (800-903-0111, Ext. 3) has expertise in the issues facing victims of domestic violence who are charged with crimes and/or incarcerated. Advocates, victims and attorneys can obtain technical assistance and advice from NCDBW.

Victims/Survivors

Suggest that your advocate and defense attorneys contact the National Clearinghouse for information and assistance if you have been arrested, are considering a plea, going through a trial, waiting to be sentenced, appealing your case, or are incarcerated.

Advocates, activists & other professionals

Please contact NCDBW if...

  • A battered woman is charged with a crime.
  • A battered woman is in prison.
  • You or others in your state are working on clemency petitions.
  • Your organization has or is planning a support group for incarcerated women.
  • You or others in your state are planning legislation that directly impacts battered women charged with crimes.
  • You are researching battered women who kill, incarcerated women, or the legal or psycho/social effects of battering on women.
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